in. Every couple experiences the yearning of separation. The ebb and flow of your journey together has left a rift you. Either way, sexting is a fun and exciting way to inspire passion in your relationship. People have been sexting as long as techno l ogy permitted.
Humans are inventive creatures like that. Learning how to sext came naturally for humankind. Here are ten fun sexting games to play with your partner to get the sex juices flowing.
Questions about how you turn each other on
Like being eaten alive by fire ants or burnt to a slow crisp. This version is much better. Offer your partner two sexy scenarios and make them choose the one they prefer. Next time you see each other, act out the situation s each of you selected.
For example, does your partner want to drizzle chocolate syrup all over you and lick it off? Or would they prefer to be blindfolded and submit to you? Much better than a mound of fire ants. It can be a catalyst for conversations down the road about how to enhance your sexual connection.
It can be a sex toy, a book of sex positions, some lingerie, a stack of naked photos, or something else sexy as hell. A few hours or days later, text your partner to let them know you left a seductive treat for them to find. Then, offer them clues while they get hotter and hotter and eventually find your prize. Is your partner in a meeting with a client? Tell her to spank herself on the way in. Are they meeting with friends for dinner? Instruct him to spill beer on his chest in slow motion and rub his nipples afterward.
Your options are endless. You can recruit people to take pictures or video, to make sure your partner holds up their end of the bargain.
Taking it to the next level, pick a day where one of you is in charge. You make every decision— from where you go, to what you eat. Reward your partner by instructing them to do something sexy that involves you. Sexting ideas usually begin with classic sexting: using words to send a randy message to your partner. Classic sex-texting still has a place in the world of sexting. Taking a stroll down memory lane is a fun way to arouse provocative feelings for your partner.
Ask if they remember the time you did [fill in the blank]. Talk about the time you had sex in a public place, played with your new favorite toy, or made love for the first time. Mention details; relive the memory together. Ask them what their favorite sexual memory is.
If you want to up the ante, you can follow-up by asking them to describe their favorite fantasy. In other words, what new memory do they want to make with you? Everyone has played this vintage game at some point in their life.
Playing over sext adds a fun twist you can leverage in sexy ways. If your partner chooses truth, you have the safety of distance. You can let your wall down and ask them things you really want to know. Are they open to BDSM or pegging? Would they be willing to try a threesome? You can ask for a naughty video, or dare them to do something and demand pictures or audio for proof.
This is a great game for visual people. Snap a photo of your favorite body part. You can trade-off between regular body parts and sexy parts to throw your partner off. Trade-off sexting pics of your elbow, then your ass. Which is which?
Questions that reveal secret turn-ons
This one is pretty straightforward. When you see something hot that gives you information or ideas, send it to your partner with a personal note. You might be browsing the web and peep a new position you want to try, or a sex toy that looks fun. Text your partner the link, with some photos.
You can make a few suggestions about how you want to use the toy.
Or give them a visual of what that new sex position might look like on you. Both of you find a private spot to masturbate. Give each other a detailed play-by-play of your masturbation. You can use text, audio, pictures, and video. Keep updating your partner as you near orgasm. If you want to raise the bar, race each other to orgasm. Whoever reaches orgasm first or last, depending on how you set it up wins. The winner earns a special prize to be determined next time you see each other. The occasional winky face or suggestive eggplant is okay.
But too many emojis knock your x-rated sext down to PG The exception is this fun little game. Type out a sentence using nothing but emojis. An example might be:. After you send it, tell your partner to guess the meaning. To up the ante, give them three chances to guess right. If they do, send them a tantalizing prize. Technology is on your side. Improvements in mobile tech continue to make sexting easier and more diverse. There are some excellent free apps on the market to help you fulfill your sexting desires. Here are eight of my favorites. The original temporary image-messaging app. Even though it has evolved, you can still use it for its original purpose.
Send those sexy photos and watch them disappear! The message disappears as soon as its opened and viewed or read. This app handles images, messages, and voice recordings. But fret not, the patented encryption on this bad boy is top-notch. Chances are, you probably already use Facebook Messenger anyway.